American Women Robbing The Men...

[Iconoclasticus Resurrected]

                In America, this epoch, the situation for men, with the women is not good at all- in several other countries it seems that men are still valued by women, who are nourishing to them even; will often cradle their heads in their laps affectionately, etc.... things like that.  They are valued by the women more- true, such men might be possibly a little better-born than American men, or auspicious in some way- but I think it as chiefly the culture differences.   The pugnacious feminist social rebellion of years ago is still in track.    There is an overbalance of female/male population ratio in America, which does not exist in other countries, which is part of this.   A great many women- our best among them in fact- are committing suicide; many are apparently being cursed by an angry god and/or goddess with a shortened life span, which I believe is due to their obstinate-towards-love tendencies; they may have attracted curses from skald-like men, which also is detrimental to them... I mean men of attainment.   
             For this reason, having been very helpful towards American women formerly, I have chosen to stop this.  Thinking of them as desireable, trusted confidantes, I found I never get anything in return, referring chiefly of course to physical male needs.  Since some women are attained they can bless one, as for example with good luck, true.,,   Again, in a collapsing civilization, America, they are in the basic material sense "looking out for Old Number One" chiefy; almost solely.   Insert some money into their slot and maybe you can get something sex; possibly!  It's not very likely.  Men in business, in retribution could seek to cause their destruction; in any way possible.   The Bible thumpers don't tell the truth, that the chief deficiency of this civilization is the mediocrity and corruption in love matters... the low quality and quantity of such fulfillments.   Awareness of this fundamental truth is generally not had, it appears!


         

[Rob W. Case]

I think the matter begins with the personalities and types of people involved, what their priorities are in their relationship, and what roles they and their lovers, spouses, or significant others seek in terms of facilitating the everyday decisions that revolve around their relationships.

I believe you have a point in pointing out the fact that in America today, too many people are solely "looking out for Old Number One." I see all too often situations where too many women carry more power and dominance in their relationships mainly because the husband wants to keep "the benefits" paying out in his favor and that translates in many cases into either want or being controlled by fear in many ways. This is, sadly, very common in America today, particularly because it involves so much emotion and carnal feelings which dominates as the primary force, which trumps sound decisions and seeing the vitality of having a real, genuine, and lasting relationship for the constructive growth and nutriment of both parties in the relationship.

Now, I wouldn't say that this dynamic is the chief deficiency of the mediocrity and corruption in our civilization because I believe that arrogance, willful ignorance, and a sense of superiority are.... and in many cases you see that in the relationships you speak of as well. But I am seeing more and more as I get older people's stubborn clinging to the strongholds and habits that are encouraged in our society and culture, which is maintaining, maybe even strengthening, their personal problems. And because of this, they are not even willing to change their hearts, and change their thinking to change their situations because they really are (subconsciously perhaps) too content with the status quo.

[Iconoclasticus Resurrected]

                      I think, definitely the goddess Zanadu is making male acquisitions with women, as desired, more difficult- she who is called Durga, in the East; her epithet there is "Beyond Reach"....

[Iconoclasticus Resurrected P.S]

            This topic attracted my interest:  Astrological indications bearing on this very topic!   Accordingly, I looked up some information about the asteroid Sappho- which could also be called Durga or Zanadu- and what I found was very intreresting...
It looks like we've just come out of a very bad period for love attempts, or incitements, and are just into a very good period at present!  Actually, Sappho is mostly about music appreciation and creativity- my interest turned to it because it is the most Durga planet... 
            This is all relative- my opinion remains the same, that this is a weakest point in our society, generally.

[Rob W. Case]

How do you believe these "goddesses" and so forth that you so frequently speak of, and astrological factors bear in on what you're saying? Just curious. I mean, these things for which you speak of are mythological, not literal, material, or historical.

[gr8granny]

We are not all the same in our thinking. I have been used and tossed away after my meager monies ran out on far too many occasions. I didn't have the best of luck in picking men (Or did they pick me). Believe me, when I was younger I got "chased" a lot. I could have married that "Texas Millionaire" I once told my parents I would do when I was a teen, and mom would say "make sure he has one foot in the grave.". The few Texas millionaire's I met were repulsive to me and no way was I going to do the wild thing with them. No amount of money would have been enough!!!